The Principal's Overwhelm Toolkit

Have you ever wondered why some situations send you into overwhelm while others don’t?

As principals, we all juggle heavy demands — but overwhelm doesn’t come from the size of your to-do list. It comes from your thoughts about that list.

When your mind spirals into, “I’ll never get this all done,” you feel frantic, stressed, and stuck.

Left unchecked, overwhelm runs your entire day.

You spend more time reacting than leading.

You feel like you’re drowning — constantly putting out fires but never getting ahead. You go home drained, with nothing left for your family or yourself. And the cycle starts again the next morning.

I get it — I’ve been there.

As a principal, there are seasons where it feels like you can’t get your head above water.

I’ve had days where I was pulled in ten directions, carrying everyone’s problems, and wondering how much longer I could keep going.

But here’s what I’ve learned: the problem wasn’t the workload.

The problem was how I was thinking about the workload.

As a coach, my primary goal is to help leaders live better lives by choosing better thoughts. That’s what changes everything and that's what I will help you do in this toolkit.

Emergency Mindset Reset – a 5-minute exercise to calm racing thoughts and replace them with empowering ones.

ABC/123 Priority System – a simple daily method to identify your top three non-negotiables and tackle them first.

REAL Decision Filter – 4 guiding questions (Resources, Effectiveness, Alignment, Longevity) to stop overcommitting and prevent burnout.

Thought Ladder Tool – a step-by-step way to shift from “I can’t handle this” to “I’m resourceful and capable.”

De-dramatization Worksheet – downgrade stressful stories into neutral facts and manageable next steps.

Overwhelm Prevention Plan – personalize your early warning signs, reset strategies, and boundaries so you can act before overwhelm escalates.

Daily & Weekly Reset Routines – short 3–5 minute check-ins and 20-minute weekly reflections to keep you grounded and intentional.

Power Phrases & Mantras – quick mindset anchors to help you redirect your thoughts when stress hits.

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Barb Flowers is a certified life coach who specializes in helping educators overcome overwhelm and master time management. With eight years of experience as an administrator at a traditional school and currently serving as a principal for a Global Online Program, Barb brings extensive leadership expertise to her work coaching fellow principals.

Having started her administrative career while raising a toddler and newborn, Barb developed effective systems that allowed her to thrive professionally while remaining fully present with her family. Her proven approach to work-life balance has helped countless educators create sustainable leadership practices. As the host of "The Principal's Handbook" podcast, Barb shares her insights on educational leadership and systematic approaches to maintaining personal and professional well-being. Learn more at www.barbflowerscoaching.com.

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